by Jake Lohwater | Apr 10, 2020 | Personal Health & Safety, Relationships
In a time of shelter in place & social distancing, here are some thoughts, tools and resources on meeting our social needs now. What needs feels amplified and how to stay healthy in a time of stay-at-home recommendations…… Soapbox –...
by Jake Lohwater | Jun 11, 2019 | Relationships
How to sustain desire From TED Salon NY…… In long-term relationships, we often expect our beloved to be both best friend and erotic partner. But as Esther Perel argues, good and committed sex draws on two conflicting needs: our need for security and...
by Jake Lohwater | Apr 2, 2019 | Relationships
The secret to a good life….. An infamous 75-year-old Harvard study on adult development has collected, recorded, and analyzed the stories of thousands of men, women, and children since it started in 1938. It has gathering tens of thousands of pages of...